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Heartless Bitches

While wandering around the vast and mysterious Internet tonight, I came across a site called Heartless Bitches. After having a look around the site, I am left with mixed feelings. I’m not sure if I want to commend the women behind it… or criticize their hypocrisy. As Doc Holiday might say, it appears it “knows no bounds”.

The first post I encountered was a rant about why girls don’t like nice guys. Although there was a bit more animosity in the post than I felt was necessary, I definitely agreed with almost all of it. If you don’t feel like reading the whole thing, the basic gist is what we’ve been saying here all along: Don’t be a pussy. Of course, it’s more complicated than that, but that’s the bottom line. Shed your handicapping skin of pusillanimity, grow some balls, and don’t let women push you around. Don’t turn into a sniveling baby when they don’t act how you would prefer. It’s not hard to get a woman to act exactly how you want to, you just need a little patience, and more importantly, a little self-control. Oh, how I digress!

The reason I accuse these women (I’m assuming there is a whole cynical team of love scorned women responsible for the sight) of being hypocritical is because they repeatedly accuse men of being insecure, and cite that as a main cause of the male behavior that they do not appreciate. Granted, this may be true in many cases. However, for a woman or a group of women to start a website to proclaim their independence and superiority…well…I think you see what I’m getting at. I’m sure accusations of lesbianism have been responsible for thousands of revolutions in their eye sockets, but that shouldn’t surprise them. Like it or not, we live in a society that is completely dominated by men. Maybe not quite as much here in the United States and in other parts of the world as it once was, but the ball is still very much in man side of the court. Not the weak, insecure men that they relish in belittling, but rather the ones that have cast them aside and instilled the fire of rage that gave birth to a website. The confident and self-assured men that they claim to have such difficulty finding…who in reality are unaware of or unconcerned with their existence.

As Todd Wentworth once said, “Bitches vent in very different ways”. I suppose one of those ways may be to start a website. Bitches? Sure, many would probably agree. Heartless? No. I’m sorry ladies, but no matter how man layers of denial you pile onto your exterior, at the end of the day you still have a gooey core that is routinely rocked by the men you are so spiteful towards. I mean that in the most figurative sense, of course…I think.

I love women. Do not get me wrong. Maybe not 24 hours a day, but I wouldn’t want to live on a planet without them, that’s for sure. The whole reason I started this site was to empower men POSITIVELY, and help them build the confidence they so badly need to be able to get the type of girl they never thought they could have. However, it appears the ladies at Heartless Bitches spawned their site out of negativity. I don’t think I’ll live to see a day where women in general recognize their self-destructive nature and learn to make rational decisions based on logic instead of emotion. Maybe society as we know it wouldn’t function if that were the case…who knows?

In any event, I may not agree with their approach, but I do think that buried among all of the self-serving man hating (who are you trying to convince, ladies?), there is some genuine information that could benefit both men and women alike. For my guy readers, I recommend you check out what they have to say, and start developing a thick skin for that sort of stuff now. Women will do anything to get a reaction out of you. Why? Because that signals to them that you care about them in turn. Does that make sense? Absolutely not. But if the little things they do don’t seem to get a reaction out of you, they will resort to bigger things. Soon they’ll be driving your car through the living room and screaming about how small your penis is. Okay, it probably won’t get that bad, but you understand what I’m saying, yes?

In any event, I still have love for those heartless bitches. After all, I linked to them like four times., didn’t I? Go check them out and see what you think. Oh, and tell them I’m sorry I haven’t returned their calls, I’ve just been real busy…and reception sucks at my house…and I got a new phone and lost all my old numbers, etc.